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Bulletin, Progressive, Record, Reporter Wednesday, Sept. 28, 2011 5B October is national Domestic l00qolence Month Mona Hill Staff Writer mhill@plumasnews.com "He didn't mean it." "He felt so bad afterward." "It's my fault; I was nagging him." "He promised it would never happen again." Victims of domestic vio- lence commonly make these statements to justify remain- ing in relationships with their abusers. October is national Domes- tic Violence Month and one in two women will experi- ence domestic violence at some point in their lives. One in four women are experienc- ing it right now -- even in Plumas County. Perhaps especially in Plumas County. A dispatcher at the Plumas County Sheriff's Office said it receives at least one domestic disturbance call daily. The severity varies but it ranges from verbal to physical. Deputy Dennis Randall confirmed state law requires an officer take the primary aggressor into custody when there are indications of physical injury. He also said many times the victim objects either vocally or physically to the arrest. Domestic violence is about power of one partner over another, whether physical, emotional or mental. A majority of domestic abuse victims are women, but some are men. It's not just uneducated or impoverished women who are abused. Wealthy college graduates and professionals are just as likely to be victims of domestic abuse. It's a dirty little truth that lies behind closed doors in many homes. Delicia Martinetti, coordi- nator, and Julie Tanaka, training and outreach spe- cialist, work for the Domestic Violence Services program at Plumas Rural Services. They help women countywide to leave abusive relationships. Among the services the program offers: counseling, job help, housing, food, cloth- ing and medical assistance. Some find it hard to under- stand why a woman stays, even as the situation worsens. Often a woman believes she brought it on herself by not anticipating and meeting rigid expectations for her behavior, such as having dinner ready on time or laundering a favorite shirt. She believes she's at fault because she has voiced a mild question or objection to her partner at a time when he's tired or worried or watching the game or she didn't get the coffee, sand- wich or beer fast enough. She's been told time and again that she's stupid, ugly, worthless, unimportant and useless. Martinetti told of women who had suffered damage to their teeth so severe that their self-images were nearly destroyed. Before they left their relationships, they panicked about leaving with- out their bridgework and den- tures. They believed what they'd been told so often: No one wants toothless hags. Whatever form it takes, domestic abuse isolates a victim. She is ashamed or convinced the abuser will change. She wants to protect her abuser from public scrutiny. And, she will return -- again and again -- to the very relationship that threatens her. Why? Because she is afraid to leave the only thing she knows. For better or worse, she's leaving her life -- all she knows -- behind. She may not have job skills, resources for child Watch out for wildlife on roads Having observed "Watch out for Wildlife Awareness week" during the third week in September, the California Department of Transporta- tion (Caltrans) strives to re- duce the number of wildlife- related injuries and vehicle passenger fatalities on the state's highways. The campaign attempts to enhance the efforts of govern- ment agencies, universities and nonprofit organizations that establish safe highway passage for wildlife in Cali- fornia. The Defenders of Wildlife, a national, nonprofit organiza- tion dedicated to protecting native animals and plants, estimates that 1.5 million animals are hit on the nation's roadways each year. In addition, more than 200 people are killed in collisions with deer, elk and other wildlife. Wildlife-vehicle collisions cause $1 billion in property damage. "California's unique natural and cultural heritage is worth protecting," said Acting Caltrans Director Malcolm Dougherty. "This natural landscape not only provides habitat to spectacular wild- life, it is also a boon to the state's economy. Caltrans encourages you to join with us in protecting wildlife, as well as motorists." Caltrans, the California Department of Fish and Game, Defenders of Wildlife and the Road Ecology Center at the University of Cali- fornia, Davis, sponsor the campaign. Caltrans believes the awareness week assisted in planning for the conserva- tion of natural resources while providing safe and effective transportation. Caltrans and Defenders of Wildlife offer a few tips for motorists in wildlife country: --Be particularly alert when driving in wildlife areas. --If you see an animal cross the road, know that another may be following. --Don't litter. It could entice animals to venture onto the road. Fire danger remains high It's the time of year when the early mornings and late evenings mean putting on an extra layer of clothing. CalFire cautions residents that even with the lower temperatures, fire danger remains high. Lack of precipitation this summer has made forests and grasslands extremely dry. Even though the recent showers brought by thunder- storms have moistened fine fuels, such as twigs, pine nee- dles and grasses, one or two warm d/'y days can cause these fine fuels to be easily ignited. Large fuels, such as big branches, logs and downed trees, are still very dry inside and can burn with great intensity. Living vegetation still has low moisture content and can be easily ignited. The following items and activities can start wildfires, which destroy homes, threaten lives and damage natural resources: --Sparks from chainsaws. --Discarded smoking mate- rial. --Fireworks. --Abandoned campfires. --Hot vehicle exhaust systems. --Welding. CalFire tells residents, "Don't let the weather fool you. Lower temperatures do not mean less risk of fire. Please continue to be fire safe -- not sorry." For more information go to watchoutforwildlife.org. *NEW LOWER CAKE PRICES! *Applies to specific cokes only Order now 6" Round: $10 8" Round: $15 1/4 Sheet: $25 1/2 Sheet: $40 a delicious, scratch-baked cake with fresh-made frosting available at a LOWER PRICE. Includes 3 buttercream roses and inscription  :: .... of your choice. cakes are 2-layer ..... with frostingnd/or filling in middle. Additional flavors .... : and designs available. ::iii. !iiii::iii:: i: Visit us at:   ....... www.tracssweetsurpnses.com care or a place to live. She is stepping into an unknown world and perhaps for her it seems better to stay with the devil she knows. Not all abusers are men -- about 15 percent of victims are men. Martinetti said it is harder for men to seek services for help. There is a special kind of stigma attached: What kind of man allows himself to be abused by a woman? Martinetti said often these men are caretakers and be- lieve they have an obligation to care for their partners. Abuse grows Martinetti hears over and over, "I don't know how I got here." At the beginning of a relationship, everything seems great. However, Martinetti said, warning signs begin to appear about six to 12 months into the relationship: non-negotiable demands may appear, such as for an accounting of who the victim has spoken to, ei- ther in person or on the phone, or demands to review email or cellphone records. Most women don't want to see these demands as attempts to isolate or control them. They think the demands are not that important and don't notice how it escalates until their self- esteem is undermined. Getting help If you are in an abusive relationship, there's help. Martinetti and Tanaka can provide an array of services from physical safety to men- tal health; they can provide housing, food and training. They work with each woman from theplace she's at and listen to what she's willing to do. They will meet at a time and place of a woman's choosing Facts about domestic violence Victims: 85 percent female, 15 percent male The No. I cause of women's injuries- more than auto accidents, rapes and rnuggings combined Thirty-four percent of female homicide victims 15 and older are ki//ed by their spouses, ex-spouses or boyfriends More than 1 million women seek medical care for battering injuries annually Source: "Domestic Violence: A Handbook for Victims and Professionals, " published by Nevada Network Against Violence My girlfriend got drunk at a party at someone's B house and she says that she was raped when she went ..... sout ide to smoke a cigarette. She won't report it, said no on^-e 1= would believe her because she was pretty drunk, but she's getting depressed and dropping classes. I told her that she needs to talk to a counselor because it's not easy to pretend it didn't happen, but she's afraid that the police would be called. Have your friend call the Plumas County Rape Crisis Center at 283-5515 or Sierra SAFE at 993-1237 to talk with a rape counselor. She does not have to give her name, all calls will be confidential. Her physical health may be at risk, too. Crisis Line  Resource 283-4333 ';-- Center 1"877-332-2754 °r 283-5515 J A program of Plumas Crisis intervention & Resource Center and her privacy is absolute. If you know someone who is in an abusive relationship, don't give up on her because she won't leave -- she's already alone and needs support. Call PRS and discuss the situation with Martinetti or Tanaka. Numbers to call include: 283-5675, (888) 504-5102 and a 24-hour crisis line at (877) 332-2754. Martinetti said there is always someone at the other end of the phone. Drop-ins are also welcome at 711 Main St. (the blue house at the fop of Cemetery Hill). STEP Outof Domestic Violence What: 5K walk/run Who: Plumas Rural Services" Domestic Violence Services program Why: heighten awareness and raise funds When: Saturday, Oct. 8.; regis- tration 8:30 - 9:30 a.m.; run starts 10 a.m. Where: Dame Shirley Plaza How much: $10 entry fee in- cludes drinks, T-shirt, draw- ing tickets. Funds raised assist with program costs. Children participate for free. Information: pre-register at 711 Main St. or call 283-5675 FEATURE OF THE WEEK: Log Cabin Steamer 2019 East Main St., Quincy 283-2929 www.quincyhotspot .com 10% OFF ALL IN-STOCK STEAMERS Now through Oct. 12, 2011 REDUCE- RE-US - RECYCLE Quality treasures at affordable prices." Budget conscious? Find things at good prices and good values at these area stores. 530-283-1762 10% OFF o. s$ OFF any purchase of s20 or more thru October At the ATM Graeagle • 836-4400 ¢, ...... Peninsula FIRE. SIRENS ). Thrtft Store ........ Check out our Buys! 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